Authoritarian – In this parenting style, the parents set the
rules and they simply expect their children to follow. The parents punish their
children for dis obedience. In case of obstacles, the parents decide and plan
the actions their children must take. This parenting style produce children who
have no problems following rules set by the authorities – elders or people in
the position. These children are less likely to grow up as law-breaking adults.
On the negative side, these children are most likely to grow up as adults with
very low self-esteem.
Authoritative – Rules also exist in this parenting
style. But exceptions to the rules are
recognised here by both parents and children. Authoritative parents explain the
logic behind each rule. They also consider the feelings of their children about
each rule. They use consequences – positive ones – in disciplining their children.
They also match obedience with praise and rewards. Children raised using this
parenting style grow up into adults with good decision-making skills.
Permissive – As the term implies, this parenting style doesn’t
involve rules. It lets children do whatever they want. Permissive parents tend
to discipline their children only when the latter involve themselves in a
serious problem. Permissive parents often want to act as their children’s best
friends. Permissive parenting style produce children who have academic and behavioural
problems. Consequently, these children grow into irresponsible adults.
Uninvolved – This parenting style simply promote neglect. Apart from not disciplining their children, uninvolved parents don't provide for their basic needs. These parents often leave their children in orphanages and entrust their upbringing to another person's care. Children of uninvolved parents lack happiness, discipline and self-esteem.
